Note: snip not snipe, this is dharma ethics! đ
A lightâhearted Dharma teaching on trimming the ego, here, this is not referring to the hair.
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1. The Call to the Snipsters
Gather round, noble Snipsters. Sharpen your scissors â not for hair, but for egoâthreads that keep tangling your day.
One is not shaving heads here. But shaving habits.
The Western world is busy quaffing: consumption, stimulation, outrage, powerâplay, âIâm right, youâre wrong,â and the occasional artisanal cappuccino.
But the Snipster knows: the real snip of nonsense is internal. (Recognising it).
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2. Tibetan Teachings
Tibetan Buddha Dharma has a whole toolkit for this:
- Shantideva: âIf you control your mind; it’s the same as that experience in the world.â (Phenomena is experienced by the mind).
- Milarepa: lived in a cave, ate nettles, turned slightly green. Moral: enlightenment is not glamorous; itâs gritty.
- Ngakpas: long hair, wild yogis, zero interest in your corporate powerâplay. They keep their hair long to show that freedom isnât about appearance.
The Snipster learns from all of them: cut the clinging, not the curls. (In fact the Buddha’s tight curls symbolised abandonment of ignorance and spiritual purity).
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3. The Emotional Side (the bit we pretend we donât need)
Letâs be honest: the world feels upsideâdown sometimes. Value systems wobble. Dialogue collapses. Everyoneâs shouting; no oneâs listening.
Inside, you feel:
- tired of egoâwars
- allergic to powerâgames
- hungry for sincerity***
- thirsty for meaning***
- slightly annoyed at everything
This is not a personal failure. This is the human condition noticing itself.
The Snipster approach: laugh, breathe, and snip one thread at a time.
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4. Daily Practice for the Modern Snipster
For the lay person a practical, doable, notâmonastic, nonâdramatic routine.
Morning: The First Snip
Before the phone, before the news, before the world barges in:
- Sit for 2 minutes.
- Notice the mind trying to sprint.
- Snip that impulse gently: âNot yet (dharma trainee).â
Midday: The Dialogue Snip
When someone annoys you, confuses you, or tries to win:
- Pause.
- Ask yourself: âDo I want to be right, or do I want to be free?â
- Snip the need to dominate.
- Respond from curiosity, not combat.
Evening: The Quaffing Snip
When the urge to numb out hits â scrolling, snacking, arguing, doomâreading:
- Notice the craving.
- Snip the automatic reaction.
- Choose one small, sane action instead: tea, breath, walk, silence, music, anything that doesnât hijack your mind.
Night: The Gratitude Snip
Before sleep:
- Name one moment you didnât act like a ogre today.
- Celebrate it.
- Thatâs Dharma.
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5. The Snipsterâs Creed
Repeat as needed:
âI cut the clinging, not the world.
I trim the ego, not the people.
I snip the nonsense, not the connection.â
This is the path. Not dramatic. Not glamorous. But deeply sane. đ
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6. Final Word from the Snipster Clan
You donât need to wage war on the world.
You just need to stop letting the world wage war inside you.
Dialogue over dominance. ***
Presence over performance.
Humour over heaviness.
Dharma over drama.
Snipsters to the ready! The trimming begins within. đ
